Morgan went to a birthday party of a classmate this evening. As far as I understood, the entire class was invited. That was very generous. The party was at a place called, "Pump It Up", located in the autopark/industrial area of Tempe. Pump It Up is an ingenious indoor jumping party concept, otherwise known as
outsourced warehouse entertainment. It is run like a well oiled machine. Two parties happen simultaneously for two hours each. The center starts at 10 AM and goes until 9 AM - 5 shifts of two birthdays each day, or ten total parties. You arrive in the lobby at your assigned time and place your host (the birthday child's) gift in the appropriate rolling bin. The two scheduled parties watch a safety video and then retreat to room A or B where they jump on the equipment for 40 minutes. An overhead announcement is made and the parties are led out different hallways and back into the opposite room for another 40 minutes. Two separate party rooms are set up with a throne and two teenage workers to dish out pizza and drinks to the now sweaty, hungry party goers. The workers light a cake for the birthday child and also make record of the presents and their giver's names for future thank you's. The presents and leftover food are rolled out after the 20 minute room time into the family's car and the party is over. It's
very, very mechanical and very expensive.
While mentioning this, I do believe the children had a good time. Morgan and her classmates were smiling away. This was the third party to which Morgan has been invited at Pump It Up. However, I have a strong opinion about these
ueberparties. The one-upping is getting out of hand at times. In the Phoenix metro area, there are several grand places where you can have your child's party. There's a monthy magazine devoted to the topic. The ultimate mega location is the princess castle. It is truly that, a grand castle, with a entrance big enough that a horse drawn carriage can enter the castle. It was built next to a wedding reception building and is known for hosting dream weddings. During the week, little girls with big credit cards can experience the same, including the cake, horse and carriage rental and limo to pick up your little guests. All this is less than 5 miles from our home.
There's a website devoted to those parents who want to say, "enough is enough". It's called
http://www.birthdayswithoutpressure.org/ and describes the simple parties. Our girls already buck the trend of the credit-card-parties by leaving their birthdays to the family. Instead, Morgan has an annual (this year her 4th annual) Christmas cookie party. Annika has a Valentine's Art party and Ingrid will have a backyard carnival style party. The beauty of this plan is that the decorations are already in place. The supplies are inexpensive. There are no presents to worry about. And the girls find it fun!