It was not Morgan's best night last night, that's for sure. The night sleep did not bring a reprieve and the typical as well as atypical sassiness continued in the morning. No one was in good form.
What was a planned church, tacos, home, change, and back out kind of day turned into kitchen cleaning, homework and slowly working our way out the door. We forced ourselves to change moods to prepare to go back to church in the afternoon.
Last week I volunteered our family to chaperone the confirmation class on a scavenger hunt at the Phoenix zoo. Not knowing what to expect, we agreed to transport up to two extra kids and then take them into the zoo to meet up with the group.
When I re-looked at our Keeper's Club membership it said 10 kids ages 3-18 can be included in our family. With four Chung kiddos, that meant we could take six extra youth with us. As we met up at the zoo, we decided to take all of the youth with us, because they cost more, leaving only two children to go with Pastor Scott and the other chaperones.
We made our way forward through the walk way to the entrance - that's 12 of us if you're counting. Two adults, 10 kids. As part of the ten kids we had Joey and Jack. Both Joey and Jack are seventh graders by age but are very special needs kids. We weren't even sure if they could walk into the zoo without their moms, who had to stay back in line and pay for an adult ticket as chaperones. We went ahead to get the entire group in under our membership which saved quite a bit for the youth group. The group started to immediately separate and I could see the stress on Woody's eyes trying to keep count of our kids amongst all the others on the wide bridge entrance. Jack got ahead and Woody was in the back. I was with Joey. I quickly asked each one of the other youth, including Morgan to take responsibility for Erik, Ingrid and Annika to walk to the entrance. I told Woody to run up and walk with Jack and I stayed with Joey. For this small time we were worried if we could handle the group or any perceived issues with the other two.
We approached the entrance and Woody announced our group was the 10 kids and handed our membership card. We were ushered in and then had to wait for the other chaperones and the two younger kids who were paying to get in. This was a long wait. I glanced over and the group stayed together. Joey and Jack and I chatted then Jack and Woody started talking - about anything really, just to keep them calm. They were nervous without their mothers. We had them people watch to keep a look our for their families.
In all of this, the rest of the group was calm, collected and very helpful to us. It was so refreshing. After the group gathered together, we split into scavenger hunt groups. We had three girls and two boys, plus the younger Chung kiddos - eight kids. Jack and Joey went with their moms. Pastor Scott got to roam between the groups but mostly stayed with Jack and Joey.
Our teens so impressed us with their politeness and their calmness. Everyone stayed together, no whining, no teenager antics. It was a very nice afternoon. We felt so blessed, both of us, to be around youth and enjoy ourselves. We bought everyone ice cream and then extra water for one girl who was showing signs of dehydration. The entire group stopped and waited for us to get her cooled off and hydrated. We saw animals and talked.
This was the first time we were able to use our membership to its fullest extent, including the 10 kids entrance and the discounts on ice cream and sodas for Woody and me.
We got the group back to the the church as 4:30. Everything was fine and the Chung gang decided we should celebrate with Sunday dinner at Red Robin. One block out from the church parking lot, Erik threw up all over himself and the car seat. What?????
We pulled over in a physician parking lot and got out. It stunk. I was happy that I decided just this once to pack an entire set of extra clothes for Erik. Just because. He's almost five so it's not something I do every trip. I was so happy it was THIS trip that I did. We cleaned the car seat as much as possible with wipes and stripped Erik in the parking lot and got him changed. The smell mostly subsided and Erik decided he felt great. Cautiously we continued on with our evening plans, still feeling the natural high of hanging out with GOOD TEENS. We felt restored.
Just before our food arrived, Ingrid turns and her nose combusts with blood. What?????? She soaked through a couple of napkins and still had to sit back after her food arrived.
I shake my head this evening. All is well and four Chungs are in bed.